Category: Elder Folk
I was interested in how any of you handle caring for your elderly parents, grandparents, brothers or sister. Do any of you deal with this issue? Or does your family just count you out because you're blind? How do they react to you in this situation?
I decided to read this, just in case I have to take care of my mom. I already know how to take care of my dog and guinea pig. My grandmother had Alzhiemers I watched my mom take care of her. When my dad was dieing they counted me out. They would let me help a little. I would get scared sometimes. I had to watch my dad twice when Mom had to take my sister to the dentist. I called 911 caus I thought my dad was going to die when I was watching him. I was scared. That's why I did it. My mom was so mad at me.
DJMom, You and I have sort of danced around this issue in private conversations. I can only tell you that given the fact that you live with an elderly relative now, you need to make your feelings knwon to the rest of your family. They'll not know you have opinions unless you state them. I'll discuss this more with you privately at some point, but you have good common sense, and indeed, should have a voice in this issue. Sorry to be vague, but I don't want to reveal anything you might want kept to yourself.
Lou
Lou you are a true friend, keeping the first person who posted this topic feelings and thought to your self. I wish others on the Zone were like you. Hope
hi dj. I too have cared for elderly parents as well as siblings, and I can empathize. You have to tell your family what you think. I agree. with lou.